Tuesday, 22 October 2013

From tears to smiles to laughter


The main focus of this year’s CRED Uganda trip is spending time serving the children of Retrak, and yesterday (Monday) that started in earnest.

Retrak is an NGO that works with street kids in a number of African countries; the first location was Addis in Ethiopia, and then it expanded to work here in Kampala. Next came Nairobi, Kenya, and they now also have, or about to have, bases in Malawi, Tanzania, DRC and South Sudan. The work they do is incredible and I never cease to be inspired and humbled by them, having been fortunate to visit them 5 times now.

The philosophy of Retrak, like many street kids organisations, is that every child matters and deserves a proper chance at life (but they put it better than that). But the way Retrak puts that into practice is so impressive.

The process starts with outreach workers going on to the streets during the day and also at night, from 9pm  - 4am, seeking out the kids who are on the streets, and slowly gaining their trust as they prove that they are friendly adults and not negative, hostile, or abusive. They tell the kids about Retrak, and what is offered, and then leave the child to make its own mind up about whether to go or not – its all about choice.
Once the child has chosen to attend Retrak drop-in centre, they go along to the Clubhouse, which is located in the area that many of the street kids hang out in, and at Clubhouse they can get a bed for the night, a hot meal, the chance to wash, access to a nurse for any medical needs, and catch-up education. Retrak commit to provide all of that; the child has to choose to commit to leaving outside the compound all addictive substances and weapons, and following the simple rules of the organization.

For some children, that is as far as they go with Retrak, as they don’t want to consider returning to a home, but for any who would like to be repatriated with family, or to try and find a foster family, the Retrak social work team springs into action and assists with finding and contacting the family, or seeking out a new family, and then visiting them, discussing the child’s wishes, and assessing the family situation etc.

At the same time, those who want to go home move to Tudabejja, which is the half-way house for Retrak, where the children live in 8-bedded homes, and are helped to get back into the way of following house rules, being part of a family group etc. They also continue with their education and get the chance to learn some farming skills so they are better prepared to return to a rural family life.

When the social worker is confident that the repatriation is a go-er, the child and social worker travel to the child’s home for the reunion. This might be in a nearby part of Uganda, or it might be far away, or even be in a neighbouring country, so the journey to the reunion can be a long one. But at no time is the child abandoned and left to fend for themselves, the social worker goes with them the whole way.

And even then, the process isn’t ended, as there is always a follow-up visit by the social worker 3 months later, and then again after 6 months, just to give support to the family as well as check up on the child.

It is the totality of the process that I find so amazing, and that ensures that 94% of the repatriations are successful.

The staff really are passionate about their work, and about helping the kids get off the streets. Elvis, the outreach worker, and Danny, the teacher, are just so fabulous to watch as they interact with kids who are high on glue, or other addictions, or have come in injured and in need of some assistance. And the other staff are equally lovely and committed.

So, with all that as the background to Retrak, yesterday we took the team on a tour of the process, from outreach walk for some (the rest did it today), to spending time at Clubhouse playing with the kids and meeting the staff, to visiting Tudabejja and having the most amazing all-singing and all-dancing welcome from the children.

Our team went from tears at the sight of where the kids live in the most appalling conditions – in drains, under buses, on rubbish heaps etc – and at the sight of such young children walking around with glue bottles on their lips so that they can sniff the fumes; to smiles at the cheers and excitement of the kids at Clubhouse; to laughter at the amazing singing and dancing of the kids at Tudabejja.

And when they recall that the kids at Tuda were once the kids on the streets, the hope aspect of the whole story becomes clear. If you only saw one part of the picture, it wouldn’t be complete – you could be in total despair, or wondering what all the fuss is about. But seeing the whole thing – well, our team got it, and they are now embarking on the rest of the week even more inspired, as they know where these street kids have come from, and where they hope to go. And they also know that there but for the grace of God could be each of us – which is inspiring enough to go and make a difference.

Read their thoughts on the whole thing at the cred blog:  www.credfoundation.blogspot.co.uk.

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