Wednesday 29 July 2015

Mary Zema of SWAR: Another inspiring woman to add to my list


Today I met Mary Zema, founder of Sanyuka Women At Risk. A quiet, humble lady, she is also a force to be reckoned with when it comes to standing up for the ladies that she supports.

Mary started Sanyuka in 2007, after feeling called to do something to help the many ladies who are caught up in the cycle of prostitution. This is the description of Sanyuka in her words:

Sanyuka Women At Risk (SWAR) exists to help women living in prostitution and their children towards a life of self sufficiency and a healthier lifestyle.  Our current activities include night visits, art therapy, structured counseling, home visits, skills development, church mobilization, entrepreneurship, capacity building, women fellowships, literacy education, children holiday program, school visits.

Sanyuka Women At Risk (SWAR) is situated in Mbikko, a semi urban township just outside of Jinja, a town about 80 km from Kampala, Uganda.  Mbikko is one of the main stopovers in Uganda for long distant drivers who come with a lot of money with the aim of spending it on alcohol and women.  It has also become well known as a place for drugs, alcohol and most especially prostitution.  Every year, many young women and girls come to Jinja and Mbikko with the aim of making money for themselves in an honest way.  Unfortunately due to the lack of opportunities in the area, many women are unable to earn enough money to support themselves, and as a result they fall into the trap of prostitution.  Their vulnerability to falling into prostitution is heightened by the high number of bars and loose morals in the region – and as this is one of the few ways women can earn a living they find themselves being forced, coerced and deceived into prostitution. 

Mary, and her small team of incredibly dedicated staff, run a rehabilitation home for a group of ladies who have shown over a number of months that they are dedicated to getting off the streets and starting a new and better life. The project takes 10 ladies at a time, and their children, and the programme that they undertake is a year in length, to give time for them to completely leave behind their old habits and get discipleship, counseling, skills training etc for the future.

Today, when we visited the project, we heard testimonies from the ladies, about how they have journeyed from a place of darkness and hopelessness, to a place of light and hope. How they have moved from hating themselves and all that their life represented, to experiencing love and in turn being able to show love to their children. How they have moved from anger and bitterness against those who wronged them in the past, to a place of forgiveness and reconciliation with family members.

One of the ladies had a child called Miracle, and she told us of the story of his birth, and what a miracle it was that he was born at all due to all the obstacles that loomed in her way – health and financial – at the time of his birth. As she told us the story there were tears of joy in the eyes of many, and I was prompted to remind them that each of them has a story that is miraculous in its own way, that each of the ladies is in their own way a miracle.

The needs are great in this project, like so many other projects out there. Whilst there is funding for the one year programme for the ladies, there isn’t money to continue to cover the cost of the education fees for the children. It only costs £30 / term per child, but for ladies who are starting out in a new job even that is a lot.
And there are professional needs – further counseling training for the staff, play therapy for the children’s worker. And a vehicle so they can get out to do the home visits more easily. And land so SWAR can build their own place and take in more ladies, and not have to turn so many women away…. Many needs, much prayer, and in the meantime they keep forging ahead, doing what they can, with the resources that they have.

Once the ladies are out of the programme and having to make their way in the world, it could be easy for them to slip back into the money making profession of prostitution, if their new plans for work don’t succeed. But I pray, as do the ladies and the SWAR staff, that the determination that each of the ladies showed today in their testimonies, and that they have shown in getting this far through the programme will carry them through the tough times and out the other side.

Mary Zema oozes love, compassion, selflessness, generosity and a determination to see the best done for each of the ladies who comes into her programme. May she be rewarded for her ongoing efforts, by seeing great provision, for the Sanyuka Women At Risk project, and for the ladies and their children as they forge forwards into their brave new worlds.

PS - if any one out there feels inspired to support one of the children at £10/ month, just let me know.

The current group of ladies on the programme

Mary Zema is the lady in pink standing at the back



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