Wednesday 10 June 2015

Peace begins with a smile - Kolkata part 1

So said Mother Teresa at some point in her incredible life. And today we visited the Mother House in Kolkata and saw how that notion continues to permeate the work of the Missionaries of Charity.

The Missionaries of Charity is the order of nuns that Mother Teresa started in the late 40’s when she was called to step out of the Loretta convent and begin her work of serving the poor and destitute, the orphans, the disabled, the abandoned, the dying and the outcasts of Kolkata.

In the Mother House there is a room that houses the shrine of Mother Teresa, and to which many people travel. On the walls of that room are some paintings that outline the dream that Mother Teresa had that precluded her calling to step forth out of the convent and into the world.

In a nutshell the dream / vision consisted firstly of a big crowd of people who were all living in poverty calling out ‘come, come, save us, bring us to the Lord Jesus’. And after that she heard the Virgin Mary saying ‘take care of them, they are mine’. And then she heard the Lord Jesus saying to her ‘I have asked you; they have asked you. Will you refuse to do this for me – to take care of them, to bring them to me?’

The ministry of  Mother Teresa, and her fellow sisters is a ministry that has touched millions around the world in some way or another, and whilst it is still very much a Kolkata based order, it has now expanded to include orders in many other countries, all based on the same principles.


And although Mother Teresa died in 1997, her presence, and the work she started still very much goes on.

The Mother House is set on a very busy road in Kolkata, with traffic going noisily (all traffic is noisy in India) up and down all day and most of the night. There is no air conditioning, so the windows onto the street are all open, and yet still there is a strong sense of peace, serenity and love that pervades the Mother House, blocking out all the background clamour and chaos on the streets.

The Sisters all carry the smile that generates peace. Not a false smile, but a genuine, loving, caring smile, that sets people at rest, and that gives dignity to even the most broken or marginalized. It is a smile that builds humanity, and speaks of unconditional love and concern and a desire to help.

As I sat in the courtyard of the Mother House, just reflecting on the work that reaches out into so many corners of the city and the world beyond, I watched one young mother come with her tiny baby and be tended to by one of the Sisters. The mother clearly didn’t have anything to give the baby, and it was hungry; but before long a bottle of milk had been rustled up and the baby was contentedly feeding. The mother looked more relaxed, and then I saw the look of delight on her face as the sisters brought her a small bag of baby clothes, probably the only change of clothes that the child had.

At the same time another Sister was tending to an older man who had come in looking very upset and seemed to be in some pain. Although the Sister was urging him to go for medical care, she was doing it in a way that calmed him, and clearly made him feel like she had his best interests at heart rather than was in any way trying to get rid of him.

After the Mother House, we went to Shishu Bhava, another of the homes run by the Sisters. This one is for children ready for adoption, as well as being the home for disabled children, and the location of the free dispensary. When we got there we were shown around by a young novice Sister, and at one point met the mother of the tiny baby that I had seen earlier at the Mother House – she was collecting some medicines as prescribed by the Sister, and it was lovely to be able to say hello, and exchange smiles and greetings of Namaste.

I was really touched by the time at the Missionaries of Charity – their serenity, love and peacefulness within such a noisy, chaotic and busy city was deeply moving. Their unconditional and all-encompassing compassion and care for any who walked through their doors was inspiring and challenging. And the strong presence of God within the place was testament to the depth of faith and prayer-life that undergirds all that the Sisters do.


Mother Teresa might have gone home, but as she once said – ‘God still loves the world today, through you and through me’. She also said ‘smiles generate smiles, just as love generates love’. Put those together and the challenge to each of us is to get out there, smile to others, show love  to others, and in so doing show that God is still loving the world.

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